Mission

Stephanie Carlile

Founder & Infertility Coach

"Empowering you to navigate infertility with knowledge, compassion, and unwavering support, every step of the way."

  The Path That Led Me Here - My Journey to Parenthood 

  When my husband and I got married in 2018, we couldn’t wait to grow our family.

  After being together for eight years, we were so ready for this next chapter.

  But as the months went by with no positive tests, I started to wonder if something was wrong.

  In 2019, we decided to see a fertility doctor, and that’s when I was diagnosed with PCOS.

  Hearing that diagnosis was tough, but I was determined to keep moving forward.

  My doctor recommended a hysteroscopy to check my uterus and remove some endometriosis.

  After the procedure, I started taking Letrozole to help my body ovulate, along with a trigger shot.

  To our surprise and joy, I got pregnant on the very first cycle!

  I’ll never forget that moment. We were on a trip to New Orleans when I got the call confirming that I was pregnant.

  My husband and I were over the moon—it was the happiest moment of my life. But at my eight-week appointment,

  everything came crashing down. The doctor couldn’t find a heartbeat. I had to have a D&C, and it felt like my whole

  world shattered in an instant.

  That loss in February 2020 was devastating. I felt broken in a way I can’t fully describe.

  But I wasn’t ready to give up. Over the next several months, I tried everything—oral medications,

  trigger shots, and even several rounds of IUI. None of it worked.

  Eventually, my doctor suggested moving on to injectable fertility medications.

  They were expensive, but we decided to give it a shot (literally).

  After several cycles with no success, my doctor recommended IVF.

  At that point, I felt like I had hit rock bottom. I didn’t know if I had the strength to keep going,

  but I also couldn’t let go of the dream of becoming a mom. I decided to reach out to CNY Fertility,

  a clinic that was more affordable than others. I started IVF in October 2021,

  and things finally seemed to be moving in the right direction. Then, life threw me another

  curveball — I needed liver surgery in November. It felt like one thing after another, and I couldn’t help but wonder if it

  just wasn't meant to be.

  After months of recovery, I was finally ready for a frozen embryo transfer in August 2022.

  I was cautiously hopeful but terrified of another heartbreak.

  When I found out I was pregnant, I was overwhelmed with relief and joy—but also fear.

  Every day of that pregnancy felt like holding my breath, hoping that this time would be different.

  Thankfully, it was. In April 2023, we welcomed our beautiful, healthy baby girl into the world.

  I can’t tell you how grateful I am for her, but I also know our journey isn’t over yet.

  We still have five frozen embryos, and we’re planning to try for more transfers in the future.

  There’s still more ahead, but having her in our lives gives me hope for what’s possible.

  Through it all, I realized how overwhelming infertility and the IVF process can be—not just physically, but emotionally

  and mentally. That’s why I wanted to create Chasing Two Pink Lines:

  to help others who are struggling with infertility, or undergoing IVF. I wanted to put

  all the information, tips, and support I wish I had in one place. My hope is that through

  Chasing Two Pink Lines, I can provide clarity, comfort, and encouragement to anyone navigating this path.

  I know my story might not sound as challenging as what others have been through.

  Some people face far more obstacles and heartbreak than I have,

  and my heart truly goes out to them. But I want to share my story as a reminder

  that even when things feel impossible, there is hope.

  You are stronger than you realize, and with each step forward, you’re closer to holding your own little miracle.

  Infertility is a mountain to climb—it’s exhausting and sometimes feels endless.

  But I’m here to tell you that it’s possible to reach the other side. No matter where you are in your journey, know that

  you are not alone.

  You are brave, you are resilient, and you can do this.